Why Mature Men Sleep Off Immediately After Sex

Why Men Sleep Off Immediately After Sex (Copied unedited) ‘’ This occurrence is indeed very frustrating for women because the average woman after lovemaking wants some cuddling, smooching and talks whereas the man has offloaded and he just drops off into sleep like a victim of tsetse fly.

Many wives feel hurt over this; it even makes some of us feel he doesn’t really love us, it makes us feel use; it ‘tells’ us he’s taken his pleasure and turned off. This article is geared towards giving us information and knowledge and I pray it settles the misunderstanding brewing in many homes today. The understanding for an occurrence changes one’s perspective and also removes the pains from it. The truth is that MEN SLEEP OFF AFTER SEX NOT BECAUSE THEY DO NOT LOVE THEIR WOMEN, but because they cannot help it; they are biologically wired to do so. Below are the scientifically tested and proven reasons why men sleep off after sex: 1) For men immediately after sex, the cerebral cortex or thinking area shuts down. Then a surge of chemicals like oxytocin and serotonin which has powerful sedative abilities are released into their blood stream and so they become drowsy and just sleep off. 2) Testestorone is a very important chemical in a man’s body; it is responsible for keeping their energy level up. When a man reaches orgasm and ejaculates, a load of testestorone is lost with the release and so the energy level drops immediately leading to fatigue and weakness, hence the desire to sleep immediately. 3) Time of sex: For many couples, they have sex at night which is the close of day meaning that the man is relatively tired even before sex. Now if he was already tired before sex and points 1 & 2 above are true, then you can imagine how tired and sleepy he will become for no seemingly apparent reasons. Have you observed that when you wake up to make love early in the morning, say around 5 am or later, he doesn’t sleep off? Both of you will probably get up, bathe, dress and face the day; it is often at night that the sleep issue is rampant. 4) Submission and relaxation are two of the basic requirements for an orgasm which means the person must give up all anxiety and stress for the moment; this helps men to relax immediately after sex and often sleep off. Why am I explaining this? It is because I know that many women are frustrated and have developed fear that their husbands don’t love them because he just sleeps off but I want you to know that it isn’t because he doesn’t love you but because he can’t help it. The irony of it is that men don’t even know why they sleep off immediately after Finally, it’s not actually all men that sleep off after sex; some have trained themselves not to. You see, everything can be learnt and unlearnt and ultimately we are more than the hormones in our bodies, so a man can decide not to sleep off and still chat and cuddle for a while; he only needs to train himself to do so. Now for those men who sleep off, you must understand that they do care but the biology of their bodies is the culprit of their sleeping after their time out. Anyway this does not apply to us women, which goes to prove what I have always believed that psychologically and emotionally, women are actually stronger than men.’’ Copied from the Diadem Christian Source: www.gallantwap.blogspot.com